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Asking for Help is a Strength, not a Weakness.

Last week was a big one for me in terms of growing my business. I was learning lots of new things and facing new challenges, and slowly I started feeling overwhelmed. I realised I was putting so much pressure on myself to do everything perfectly, and all on my own. It wasn’t until I realised this that I noticed I was so caught up in appearing strong and independent, that I had forgotten that it is ok to ask for help.

 

I wanted to share this moment with you all because I know a lot of us shy away from asking for help, and I believe most of us should ask for it more often.

 

In today’s society asking for help is often associated with being weak, and our fear gets in the way…

  • fear of being judged,
  • fear of looking stupid,
  • fear of being incompetent,
  • fear of not meeting expectations, and most of all
  • fear of failure.

 

We need to stop seeing asking for help as a weakness, but rather as a strength.

 

Asking for help takes courage, it shows you are strong enough to recognise when you are needing more support, and brave enough to expose your vulnerabilities to others.

 

Sometimes we don’t have all the answers. Sometimes we need more support than normal. And that is perfectly O.K. We all have different strengths and talents and when we reach out and receive support from others we can achieve so much more, and I can guarantee you that you’ll feel better about it when you can share the experience.

 

So, I’ll leave you this week with a bit of a reflection.

  1. Where in your life can you have the courage to reach out for help?
  2. Where can you offer your support to someone you notice is needing it?

 

Happy Monday wonderful people,

 

Sarah x

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There is no finish line to cross, no peak to put your flag on, no A+ to strive for in life - all that`s required is that you show up for yourself and consistently choose what aligns with what you value and deem most important, and know that this journey looks and feels different for everyone.

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This practice activates your social engagement system, which is key in bringing a sense of compassion and connection within your body, and aids in shifting more of those `heavy` emotions that can get stuck.

Growing up we might not have been taught how to self-soothe and regulate when experiencing strong emotions, or how to SHOW our body that it’s ok to relax. This somatic practice is a wonderful place to start 💛

Use gentle pressure and stay with each position as long as you feel is needed, or at least for 5 cycles of breath. When you’re ready to bring the practice to a close, allow yourself to sit with any sensations and shifts that arise before moving on - this helps you nervous system integrate and benefit from the experience.

With love,
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Curious to know what it’s like to work with me as your Life Coach?

My coaching programmes hold the space for you to show up exactly as you are, and to have the freedom to explore and unpack all facets of your life....

...Whether it be strengthening your relationships, finding what fills your cup, feeling more at ease and confident in your body, learning how to set boundaries, bringing more supportive habits that recharge your energy tanks, shifting negative thought patterns, or simply wanting to learn more about your emotions…

As your coach it’s my job to help you feel seen and heard - to listen and ask the deeper questions that create those beautiful and life changing ‘aha’ moments.

At the end of the journey, my biggest desire is that you will feel more at home with who you are and what you want from your life, as well as creating a tool box of your own, filled with different techniques and strategies that support you in having a healthy mind and body, and a thriving daily life.

Follow your curiosity and let`s see where it takes you!
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When you’ve gone through a heightened experience, where maybe you’ve felt stressed, worked up, anxious, panicky, or as I like to put it ‘Frazzled’; you’ll notice there’s a lot of energy in your body and it can feel as though your emotions are stuck with nowhere to go.
 
What’s going on internally in these moments, is that you’ve shifted into the seat of your activated sympathetic nervous system, and your body is focused on taking action to get you out of perceived danger. Even if it’s well passed.
 
Part of befriending your body and nervous system is showing, not telling yourself, that you are now safe. Here I share what that looks like when working with your sympathetic stress responses and some simple practices you try.
 
Explore how this feels for you and let me know what worked well.
 
With love,
Sarah x  

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When we tune in, and give our body time and space to communicate with us, we tap into so much wisdom and knowledge. Knowledge that can guide us back to our own sense of safety, worth, joy, comfort, ease…

So my invitation for you is - How can you make more space this week to tune into your body? How might it be trying to share its wisdom with you?

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Between floods, the cyclone, and quakes you may be noticing that you’re feeling sluggish or shut down, or that you don’t have the mental or emotional capacity to manage everything at the moment.

This feeling is completely normal, and is a way your nervous system kicks into gear to conserve energy and keep you ‘safe’.

Here I share what’s going on in your nervous system when you feel this way, and some practices that can support you in moments where you feel yourself shutting down.

👉 Note: With each practice focus on even breaths in and out, and repeat at least 5 times or until you feel yourself drop into your body and your surroundings.

Have a play and let me know how they go for you!

👉Also if you’re feeling called to learn more about your nervous system, and how Polyvagal and Somatic Therapy can support you – I’d love to chat

Take good care of yourself this weekend,
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Hello lovely and welcome to 2023. Over the holiday break whilst reflecting on what it is you want for your year, what you want to focus on, and what changes you want to bring into your day to day life…you may have considered working with a Life Coach and wondered what it`s all about.

If you’re ready to take yourself on this year and to invest in your personal growth, find out more about my 1:1 coaching programmes, or book in for your free 30-minute consultation over at sarahtrass.com.

Sarah x

#lifecoachingnz #personalgrowth #mindset #emotionalagility #nervousystemregulation #lifecoach #somaticpractitioner #healthyliving #consciousliving #designyourlife #livelifewell ...

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